Episode 055 - PwD - Porn While Disabled, Part 1: Why I Wanna Do Porn

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In this episode, I talk candidly about my relationship to porn as a queer cripple, and how I came to learn about it in my youth.  In this first part of a miniseries I am calling "PwD: Porn While Disabled", I share why I think disability and porn are totally important, potentially problematic, and uncover why I myself might want to embark in the industry. 


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Episode 053 - Some Thoughts on Flirting and Disability

In ths episode, I take a look at some flirting advice from the book "The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability". I talk about how I feel about some of this advice and whether or not I believe the advice holds up in the real-life disabled flirting scenarios... p.s. I dont think the advice does.  I talk about my feelings around "Be Yourself" and "Be Bold" advice as a disabled person.  I suggest that the onus to "be bold", etc. really shouldn't be placed on the disabled individual.   Just some thoughts.  


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Episode 052 - Sex, Disability, Parents, The Media and Consent

This episode had me riled up and angry about the way the media ran stories from parents of children with disabilities without the children's consent.  I focus on 2 stories here about two parents who consider hiring sex workers for their sons to experience sex.  I had lots of things to say about that (mostly angry things), and I also touch on disability activists Carly Findlay and Kim Sauder's thoughts on the matter.   What do you think about parents talking about their disabled child's sex lives to the media?


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Episode 051 - Becoming Comfortably Autistic - An Interview w/ Alex Haagaard

For this episode, I got to sit down with disabled activist Alex Haagaard.  We talked about the intersectionality found on the autism spectrum w/ respect to sexuality.  This was a really important interview that touched on disability and sexuality in a new way for me, and I'm excited to share that with you!


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Episode 050 - What's My Disabled Body Doing? An Interview w/ Sex Educator Eva

In this episode, I talk to Eva who is a young, non-disabled sex educator, making sex education available via her Youtube Channel "What's My Body Doing".  

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https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpmgFWyoBQ00FjQBUOgMfAgsub_confirmation=1

We talk about the need for better sex education around disabilities, discover that even seasoned sex educators are afraid to talk about sex and disability, and I let Eva ask me some questions, so she can become a better sex educator.  Enjoy!


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Episode 049 - Shit Happens; Ileostomy Bags and Barbie Bums - An Interview w/ Kelly Bracken

In this episode, we talk about butt stuff...but not in the way you might be expecting.  I sat down with Kelly Bracken who reached out to the showing wanting to share her experiences with an ileostomy bag and how this has affected her sexual confidence.   The interview is fun, honest and touches on a topic that so many of us are afraid to go near.  Luckily, Kelly knows how to stay sexy when shit happens. 


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Episode 047 - The Trauma and Triumph of Touch, Sex and Disability

This episode delves into the reality of touch and disability.  We talk about how touch influences our sexuality as disabled people.  I share my thoughts on how touch as a disabled man, and how this has played a role in my sex life, and I talk about what touch really means to me as a queer crippled man. 


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Episode 045 - Discussing Disability, Dudes & Dick w/ Davey Wavey

In this episode, I sit down with Youtuber Davey Wavey (www.daveywavey.tv).  We talk about body image, boys, sex and disability.  I am pretty much still pinching myself that he agreed to do it with me.  It was a really funny, sexy, flirty show that made me crush on Davey and his work even more than I did before.  


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Episode 044 - Picture This

 

In this super special episode, I share a project that I have been working on with the National Film Board of Canada around my work in sexuality, disability and queerness; a documentary short called Picture This. I talk with Producer Lea Marin and Director Jari Osborne about the importance of a film like this, the ins and outs of producing this project, and I share what it was like to be the subject of a piece like this.   I have included the Electronic Press Kit Link here so you can see clips, read the synopsis, and get ready to Picture This. 


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Episode 039 - Dominck Evans Part 1: Sex and Disability Representation in The Media

In this first of two episodes, I talk with activist, producer and creator of the #FilmDis hashtag, Dominick Evans about sex and disability representation in the media.   There's a lot of valuable stuff here, so listen up.  Find out more about Dominck here: www.dominickevans.com 


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Episode 036 - An Interview with Alaina Leary; The Swiss Army Knife of Publishing and Digital Media

For this interview, I sit down with Alaina Leary.  Her written work has been all over, and it is well-deserved.  We talk about her coming out story, friendships, the moment that she identified and realized that she was disabled and so much more!  


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Episode 035 - Cleansed, Crisp and Crippled

In this episode, we talk about the linkages between cleanliness, crippledness and sexiness.  We talk about shower sex, disability and the ideas behind disability and dirtiness that many people still hold.  We shed light on the ableist views around getting clean for sex and so much more.

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